Taboo activities

Female Masturbation: Masturbation History

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I know what your thinking, strange title for an article on masturbation! Not as strange as you might think. Most of us sit down each morning and munch on our favorite breakfast cereal without a thought of how those little flakes of bran and corn came into being. Even less of us know that many masturbation myths can be directly linked to the humble breakfast cereal. The two are linked in more ways than you might imagine, read on and find out how... Many of you will be familiar with Graham Crackers but not many with the thinking that lead to it's creation. Sylvester Graham [1794-1851] was a free thinker and reformer in his time. In the 1830's the American diet consisted mainly of red meat and blood. Graham specialized in highlighting the perils of poor eating and masturbation. Until Samual Tissots book: Treatise on the Diseases Produced by Onanism the evils of masturbation had been simply a moral one, Graham took this a step further and made it a health issue. In the 1830s Graham took his show on the road, lecturing an inquiring public about the perils of self pollution, as masturbation was then refereed to. As the first of it's kind it had an amazing impact on the general populace and the man behind it was just as dynamic.

Pleasure Not Panic The Art of Welcoming Pain

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Pain is mysterious stuff, and everyone reacts to it. If five people get more or less the same thump on the heel from the same over-wound automatic door closer, one will glance behind himself, and go on to his next appointment: another will wince, shrug, and limp a bit; another will need pain relief medication; another will take the day off from the office; and another will sue for millions (or threaten to do so), limping and complaining and even actually aching for days. If the same five people see someone else in pain, their reactions might range from smothering sympathy to the genuine belief that the only way to get over the pain is to ignore it, and get on with what you were doing. What is intolerable pain to one person is cozy welcome midnight reminder of a hard-played afternoon football game to another. And yet, presented with the idea that there are people who seek pain, who get high on pain, and who get hard or wet from pain, even the look-a’-my-bruises football player will usually react with disgust. In fact, if athletes could think of SM as sports they'd always know who was winning. If executives who are willing to stare at columns of tiny numerals till their heads are about to burst and their eyes are watering could think of SM as business, they'd understand the acceptance of pain, but they'd always know who was profiting from whom.

Group Sex Theory

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For some people, one person can sexually gratify them, but not scratch their itch completely. Each of us is like a "different flavor". Some taste like commitment, some taste like melodies, some taste like marriage, some taste just like candy. Then there are the ones who want to do the tasting and taste everything. What we have now is group sex - not at the same moment of course, but over time (weeks, months, and years) many `sexually free` people have had sex with so many other people who have had sex with so many other people themselves, that it is literally one big `orgy` of sex partners who have crossed each others paths via other people, often too many times to count. These citizens of sexual gratification need no remorse and have no intention of being anything other than an interim partner to many and a permanent partner to none. These are the "idols". Many of us know someone, male or female, that lives a bursting sexual lifestyle. They are flirty people, mysterious people, people with a bit of an edge every time you talk to them face to face. Hugely confident, they can be recognized by their sexual energy flowing like an alternative oxygen source that commands them. Yet they are everyday liaisons. "Player" is quite a strong and pointed word. Historically this title was given mainly to men who have multiple partners for sex and dating. If you`re single and you date more than one person or have had sex with more than one person in a month, does that make you a player? No. If so, half of America would be players.

1. the Bee

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The woman sits on the lingam of her partner, himself seated with his legs outstretched. She can then move up and down while resting on her hands and legs. He lifts her buttocks or thighs to accompany her movements.

Variant: The man can lean against a wall for support. The woman can kneel down instead of sitting, so that she can lean forward more easily and change the angle of penetration into her yoni.

Plusses
The woman has better control of the depth of penetration than with other from behind positions.
The yoni front wall is well stimulated.
In this passive position, the man can more easily caress his partner's breasts and yoni.

Minuses
Tiring position for the man if he has no support.

2. the Eagle

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Laying on their side, the two lovers enlace themselves with their arms and legs, the woman wrapping her legs around her partner's waist. The man bends his legs slightly to facilitate penetration.

Plusses
Very intimate position allowing maximum contact between the two partners.
Good penetration depth when the man bends his thighs between his partner's.

Minuses
Limited amplitude of movement.

3. The Perfect Alignement

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The woman lays on top of the man with her legs open to facilitate penetration. Once the lingam is well in place, both straighten their legs so that the two lovers are superimposed in a perfect alignment. The woman can then start the stimulation by rubbing her body laterally and horizontally against her partner's.

Plusses
Very intimate position offering maximum contact between the 2 partners.
The tightened yoni walls procure more intense sensations.
Recommended for tantric sex.

Minuses
The depth of penetration and the amplitude of movement are both limited.

04. the Lovers

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Both partners standing face to face, the man rubs his lingam against her partner's yoni. After a few minutes of rubbing, the yoni opens naturally to allow shallow penetration. If the woman is shorter than the man, she can wear high heels or step on a support (such as a telephone directory under each foot) to reach the appropriate height.

Plusses
A practical position for impromptu sex in all situations.
Good stimulation of both the yoni and the lingam.

5. the Amazon

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The man is seated on a chair. The woman sits Amazon-like on one of his thighs and guides his lingam towards her yoni. Once the lingam is introduced, she can contract her yoni muscles to keep it in and avoid unwanted withdrawals.

Plusses
The man can easily caress the breasts and the yoni of his partner to bring her to orgasm more easily.
Position recommended for the man suffering from premature ejaculation.

Minuses
Limited amplitude of movement and shallow penetration.

6. Andromache

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The man is lying on his back. His partner places herself above him, crouching or kneeling, keeping her torso straight up. She perfectly controls the depth and the rhythm of penetration.

Plusses
The woman retains total control enabling her to be more confident and to find the right motions to maximize her pleasure.
The man has his hands free to give his partner even more pleasure by caressing her breasts, her buttocks or her yoni.

Minuses
The angle of penetration is sometimes uncomfortable for the man, or even painful if his lingam bends.

7. the Antelope

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Kneeling on the ground, the woman holds the edge of the bed and straightens her back. The man kneels down and penetrates her from behind.

Variant: the woman can open her legs wide on either side of her partner's to offer him a maximum opening, or she can tighten her thighs to compress her yoni and squeeze her partner's lingam.

Plusses
Good stimulation of the yoni's forward wall.
The man can easily stimulate his partner's yoni and breasts with his hands.

Minuses
Beware of scraping your knees on the ground unless you have a thick carpet.

8. the Fruit Tree

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A variant of the Indra position : procuring similar sensations but reducing the woman's crushing feeling when her partner is on top. She keeps one leg against his torso and frees her other leg to the side.

Plusses
Deep penetration.
Strong stimulation of the yoni thanks to its compression.

Minuses
Could be painful if the lingam bumps into the yoni's bottom.

9. the Balanced Position

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The man sits on a chair or on the edge of the bed. The woman turns her back to him and sits on his thighs. Once he has penetrated her, she can lean down and make her yoni go back and forth on his penis. To better stabilize her position, she can hold his knees and he can hold her by the breasts.

Plusses
Position allowing rather deep penetration with a good amplitude of motion.
The man can easily stimulate his partner's breasts and yoni with his hands to better lead her to orgasm.

Minuses
Not always easy to keep the balance.

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