Group Sex Theory
For some people, one person can sexually gratify them, but not scratch their itch completely. Each of us is like a "different flavor". Some taste like commitment, some taste like melodies, some taste like marriage, some taste just like candy. Then there are the ones who want to do the tasting and taste everything. What we have now is group sex - not at the same moment of course, but over time (weeks, months, and years) many `sexually free` people have had sex with so many other people who have had sex with so many other people themselves, that it is literally one big `orgy` of sex partners who have crossed each others paths via other people, often too many times to count. These citizens of sexual gratification need no remorse and have no intention of being anything other than an interim partner to many and a permanent partner to none. These are the "idols". Many of us know someone, male or female, that lives a bursting sexual lifestyle. They are flirty people, mysterious people, people with a bit of an edge every time you talk to them face to face. Hugely confident, they can be recognized by their sexual energy flowing like an alternative oxygen source that commands them. Yet they are everyday liaisons. "Player" is quite a strong and pointed word. Historically this title was given mainly to men who have multiple partners for sex and dating. If you`re single and you date more than one person or have had sex with more than one person in a month, does that make you a player? No. If so, half of America would be players.