Taboo activities

You should do some homework before you try to deep-throat a real live cock. I don't like to get into technical discussions about anything as pleasurable and emotional as sex, however, I don't want you to run into any unpleasant surprises that will turn you off before you experience the pleasures of deep-throating. You'll need to learn some simple details that'll help you overcome your gag reflex and control your breathing before the pleasures of deep-throating can really be enjoyed. Probably one of the first things you encountered when you started sucking his cock was a gag reflex when it went too far in. It's the natural tendency of your body to gag when a foreign object, such as a deeply thrusting cock, is sliding down into your throat. With practice you can learn to control your gag reflex. The next thing to learn is how to relax your tongue so you can slide his cock past it and down into your throat. You also have to learn to control your tongue during the entire time you're deep-throating. There's really not much learning involved. You've already gotten used to having his cock in your mouth, now all you have to do is get used to having it in your throat. Get a soft, flexible dildo of the proper size so you can practice with it in private at your leisure, the solid jellies are the most comfortable. Get what's called a "double dong" so that you'll have something straight with enough length to hold on to, one and a quarter inches in diameter and ten inches long is a good size to start with.

It's hard to separate deep-throating and throat (face) fucking. Throat fucking is simply an extension of deep-throating, so we'll discuss some things together. One of the best positions to practice deep-throating with a real live cock is to kneel in front of him with your head tilted back while he's standing. The most restful position, and the one you should use when you first start, is with him sitting up slightly in bed while you kneel between his legs with your head tilted back. The size and shape of most cocks is normally not a problem for deep-throating, you can guide it with your hands if you have to and can normally relax enough to handle some pretty big ones, but it's a different matter for throat fucking. A big cock can be a curse. As we discussed in the last anatomy lesson, if it's much over one and three quarter inches in diameter it's going to take some lady to let him fuck her throat with that. Anything much over one and a half inches can present difficulties for the average woman. If it's seven inches or more in length, watch out, he could injure the lower end of your throat and your esophagus since a cock won't fit into your esophagus and he'll have a tendency to bottom it.

Don't forget his balls, it can be fun for both of you if you play them right. Just as with women and their clits, some men's balls are extremely sensitive. Just as you must completely trust him before you let him thrust his cock down your throat in throat fucking, there must be a certain amount of trust built up between the two of you before he'll willingly let you have undisputed use of those two prize possessions! This is a serious concern for a man, it's his balls that secrete the hormones that give him his masculinity and he doesn't want any thing to happen to them. Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue. You may want to gently caress his cock with your hand while you're bathing his balls with your tongue. Remember that the balls are sensitive to excessive pressure, however, it can feel good to him if you put your thumb and forefinger around his sack and pull on it, surprisingly hard in fact. Once you get them wet, try taking one of them into your mouth and playing with it, see if you can get both of them in. Watch his face and feel him quivering as you gently move them around in your mouth while you massage his cock with your hands. Try closing your lips around his sack above his balls and pulling with your mouth like you did with your fingers.

There'll be times when you'll want to give him a quickie. It's a very simple technique. Place your lips around the head of his cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his cock just covering and uncovering the meatus with each twirl. This doesn't require any great skill, it works simply because this is the most sensitive area on his cock. It's not necessary to be all that skillful. All that's necessary is for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area. By sucking on this area of his cock continuously, you'll produce a quick powerful cum. It's not necessary to bob your head up and down on his cock to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he's already cum.

You're doing just fine and he loves it! Keep it up as long as you're comfortable with it. Now you've given him head that he'll not forget. I've heard from men that not one woman in fifty really knows how to give good head. The rest act like it's a big favor. If you don't like to give head at first, don't give up, most women eventually develop a liking for it as they allow themselves to get into the sensual, intimate nature of it. Older women seem to like it more, I know one woman who sometimes has orgasms while giving head. One final note, this time for the men, don't push it! There's nothing more deadly to a relationship than pushing a woman's head down to your crotch. If she wants to do it, she'll get around to it in her own good time. Don't be afraid to discuss oral sex with your woman, you just might be surprised at her response. Now, go get 'em girls!

As I said earlier, although I personally find 69 the most emotionally satisfying, I do dearly love a good fuck, the feel of a thrusting cock deep in my cunt. When a couple has become wholly at ease with oral sex and completely familiar with each others needs and responses, they should learn to blend it in with a good fuck. Because of a man's difficulty in achieving multiple orgasms and the way that cock switch in his brain works, thinking of sex - cock hard (anticipating it - like a rock), cum - cock soft, he should take the lead in the intercourse described here (there's a sequence where you want him to eat you and still keep his cock soft and I don't know any way to do that except wear him out first). However, as you become more familiar with each other's likes and dislikes, either can start if you rearrange the sequences a little, it's fun to try. Sometime when you have a few hours to spend, try this. Start out on a nice comfortable bed and warm her up with some serious cuddling and kissing. Work your way around until she's lying at the edge of the bed with her feet resting on two chairs and you on top of her between her legs. Kiss and caress your way down her body as you slide your body slowly over her pussy until you are resting on the floor with your tongue in her cunt.
Now, give her the best head she's ever had. When she cums, ease up and carefully work her up toward another orgasm. As she begins to respond, slowly work your way back up her body, letting your body slide over her clit. When you reach her lips, slowly slide your tongue into her mouth and your cock into her cunt until both are all the way in.