I realised that it was all only in my head
Me and my vulva lived together for over thirty years, but I had to become a mom to really get to know her. Since I gave birth, I started not only to reconnect with myself and overcome personal traumata but also to feel like a complete woman. In my twenties, I never touched that 'something down there'. I’ve never even looked at myself. It was something that existed but had no place in my life. Since two years or so, my life has completely changed. I look at myself, I touch myself, I enjoy myself. My sex life has totally changed because I accept myself and I am able to let go of my sorrows and fears. In the past, I tried to change the look of my vulva. I hated my pubic hair and tried waxing, shaving, sugaring... But nothing worked for me. That wasn’t me. Now I even love my pubic hair. I realised that it was all only in my head. I was very insecure and thought that a hairy vulva is ugly. That pubic hair is filthy and has to be eliminated. I wanted to please my partner. Now I know that there is only one person I have to please, and that is me.
L – 30 years old
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