Nymphomania in the body

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In 1841, Miss T., the twenty-nine-year-old daughter of a Massachusetts farmer, was diagnosed with nymphomania. According to the physicians who described the case in the Boston Medical and Surgical Journal, her conversation and actions left no doubt that she suffered from the disease: she uttered the "most disgusting obscenities" and moved her body in ways that expressed her uncontrolled "libidinous feelings." Although in good health, she had been restless and morose, exhibiting a "paroxysm of hysteria" when the doctors arrived. After a vaginal examination, they determined that her uterus was enlarged, her vagina over-abundantly moist, but her long and "tumid" clitoris was the telltale sign of nymphomania. They applied various caustics to her genitals to cool her ardor and tried other traditional remedies, such as bleeding and cold-water douches. After several weeks, the doctors pronounced her greatly improved, with "not a symptom remaining referable to nymphomania." This time when she was examined vaginally, she exhibited "every appearance of modesty," including a retracted and very diminutive clitoris. At the time, the doctors' treatment of Miss T., particularly the use of bleeding and caustics, was a typical medical approach to most illnesses.

Brain areas shut off during female orgasm

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New research indicates that parts of the brain that govern fear and anxiety are switched off when a woman is having an orgasm. In the first study to map brain function during orgasm, scientists from the Netherlands also found that as a woman climaxes, an area of the brain that governs emotional control is also heavily deactivated. "The fact that there is no deactivation in faked orgasms means a basic part of a real orgasm is letting go. Women can imitate orgasm quite well, as we know, but there is nothing really happening in the brain," said neuroscientist Gert Holstege, presenting his findings Monday at the annual meeting of the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology. In the study, Holstege and his colleagues at Groningen University recruited 11 men and 13 women, together with their respective partners. The volunteers laid on a scanning machine bed and were injected with a dye that shows changes in brain function on a scan. For the men, the brain scanner tracked activity during rest, during erection, during manual stimulation by their partner and then during ejaculation, brought on by the partner's hand. For the women, the scanner measured brain activity during rest, while they faked an orgasm, during manual stimulation by their partner, and while they experienced genuine orgasm. Holstege said he had trouble getting reliable results from the study on men because the scanning machine needs activities lasting at least two minutes to record an activity. But the men's climaxes didn't last anywhere near that lone, meaning he could not reliably compare the scans before climax and during.

The Female Orgasm

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Research shows that 90 percent of the problems women have in achieving orgasm stem from a psychological nature. That's good news because it's all about you and it can be overcome. Dr. Phil offers the following advice: If you can achieve an orgasm alone, but not with a partner, you may have performance anxiety. Being anxious, worried or feeling pressured to have an orgasm with your partner can work against you. Anxiety is an arousal response — it can cause tension. An orgasm is a relaxation response. Those two are incompatible. If you're wondering, "Am I doing this right? Is he judging me? Is he having fun? Does he like this?" during intercourse, the anxiety can take you away from your pleasure. Give yourself permission to change your internal dialogue. Say, "You know what? I am part of this exchange and I do have the right to ask for what I want. And I don't have to have expectancies that I have to perform in some way. I'm going to enjoy this." Give yourself permission to relax and go with the flow.Some additional information regarding the female orgasm: Fifty to 75 percent of women who have orgasms need clitoral stimulation and are unable to have an orgasm through intercourse alone.

Natural family planning

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Natural family planning is one of the most widely used methods of fertility regulation, particularly for those whose religious or cultural beliefs do not permit devices or drugs for contraception. This method involves periodic abstinence, with couples attempting to avoid intercourse during a woman's fertile period—around the time of ovulation. Techniques to determine the fertile period include the calendar method, cervical mucus method, or the symptothermal method. The calendar method is based on 3 assumptions as follows: (1) A human ovum is capable of fertilization only for approximately 24 hours after ovulation, (2) spermatozoa can retain their fertilizing ability for only 48 hours after coitus, and (3) ovulation usually occurs 12-16 days before the onset of the subsequent menses. The menses is recorded for 6 cycles to approximate the fertile period. The earliest day of the fertile period is determined by the number of days in the shortest menstrual cycle subtracted by 18. The latest day of the fertile period is calculated by the number of days in the longest cycle subtracted by 11. With the cervical mucus method, the woman attempts to predict her fertile period by quantifying the cervical mucus with her fingers. Under the influence of estrogen, the mucus increases in quantity and becomes progressively more elastic and copious until a peak day is reached.

The history of female prostitution in Australia (2)

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Other pressures also affected society's willingness to intervene in the lives of prostitutes. Health considerations, for instance, became increasingly important in the context of British imperial expansion in the latter half of the nineteenth century. While venereal disease was not a new phenomenon in that century, governments saw it as an increasingly serious problem, especially as it affected the fitness of the nation's military personnel. Prostitutes were targeted as the major carriers of VD and the most vulnerable to control. In Britain, the government enacted the controversial Contagious Diseases (CD) Acts of the 1860s which aimed to provide a pool of disease- free prostitutes for the use of troops in English garrison towns. The British military authorities also wanted similar legislation introduced in ports regularly visited by its troopships. Governments in New Zealand, India, Singapore, Canada and South Africa bowed to this pressure, as did the government in Tasmania in 1879 (Warren, 1993; Backhouse, 1985; Van Onselen, 1980; Macdonald, 1986; Arnot, 1987, 1988; Daniels and Murnane, 1979). Other colonies, notably Victoria and Queensland, introduced such CD Acts without any direct pressure from the military, their intention being more clearly designed for the protection of the civilian (male) population (Evans, 1984; Arnot, 1987). It is clear that many in the colonies saw the CD Acts not only, although primarily, as a health measure.

Pleasure Not Panic The Art of Welcoming Pain

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Pain is mysterious stuff, and everyone reacts to it. If five people get more or less the same thump on the heel from the same over-wound automatic door closer, one will glance behind himself, and go on to his next appointment: another will wince, shrug, and limp a bit; another will need pain relief medication; another will take the day off from the office; and another will sue for millions (or threaten to do so), limping and complaining and even actually aching for days. If the same five people see someone else in pain, their reactions might range from smothering sympathy to the genuine belief that the only way to get over the pain is to ignore it, and get on with what you were doing. What is intolerable pain to one person is cozy welcome midnight reminder of a hard-played afternoon football game to another. And yet, presented with the idea that there are people who seek pain, who get high on pain, and who get hard or wet from pain, even the look-a’-my-bruises football player will usually react with disgust. In fact, if athletes could think of SM as sports they'd always know who was winning. If executives who are willing to stare at columns of tiny numerals till their heads are about to burst and their eyes are watering could think of SM as business, they'd understand the acceptance of pain, but they'd always know who was profiting from whom.

The Condom Controversy - Safe Sex or Russian Roulette?

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Condoms are widely promoted as offering protection against pregnancy and infections; and are increasingly used as the contraceptive of choice. But method and user failure, combined with a false sense of security leading to higher rates of intercourse with greater numbers of partners, mean that over half of girls relying on them will become pregnant over a five year period. And whilst, if used correctly, they protect against HIV and gonorrhoea, they do not offer substantial protection against the much more common Herpes, HPV or Chlamydia. The much more biblical 'saved sex' message (sex saved for a long term monogamous relationship) is much better than the 'safer sex' offered by condoms. My London medical practice has seen a huge rise in sexually transmitted infections (STIs) over the past few years. Genitourinary medicine clinics are struggling with the increasing workload and the Medical Society for the Study of Venereal Diseases is promoting training courses to help GPs cope. Despite well-funded Government initiatives, sexual health is actually declining. Condoms are considered to be 'the only products that offer protection against both pregnancy and infections '. As such, they are the major priority in most sexual health improvement strategies. Half of girls under 16 attending family planning clinics in 2000-2001 chose male condoms as their main contraception method. The proportion of those of all ages using condoms rose from 6% in 1975 to 35% in 2001; use of the contraceptive pill declined from 70% to 42%. Of course, choosing condoms does not equate with using them. A large survey found that only 40% of unmarried 18-59 year olds used them at last intercourse. Even when this contact was casual, still only 62% used them.Another study of 8,500 American undergraduates found that only 43% always used condoms and 24% never did.

Group Sex Theory

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For some people, one person can sexually gratify them, but not scratch their itch completely. Each of us is like a "different flavor". Some taste like commitment, some taste like melodies, some taste like marriage, some taste just like candy. Then there are the ones who want to do the tasting and taste everything. What we have now is group sex - not at the same moment of course, but over time (weeks, months, and years) many `sexually free` people have had sex with so many other people who have had sex with so many other people themselves, that it is literally one big `orgy` of sex partners who have crossed each others paths via other people, often too many times to count. These citizens of sexual gratification need no remorse and have no intention of being anything other than an interim partner to many and a permanent partner to none. These are the "idols". Many of us know someone, male or female, that lives a bursting sexual lifestyle. They are flirty people, mysterious people, people with a bit of an edge every time you talk to them face to face. Hugely confident, they can be recognized by their sexual energy flowing like an alternative oxygen source that commands them. Yet they are everyday liaisons. "Player" is quite a strong and pointed word. Historically this title was given mainly to men who have multiple partners for sex and dating. If you`re single and you date more than one person or have had sex with more than one person in a month, does that make you a player? No. If so, half of America would be players.

Menses and Sexuality

Higienos priemonių pasirinkimas – kokias kada naudoti? Intymios higienos svarba moterims. Intymios higienos prausikliai. Įklotai. Paketai. Menstruacinės taurelės.

The phases of the moon affect the ebb and flow of the tides on mother earth. The moon also affects our tides as well. The gravitational pull of the moon effects all bodies of water, including our own complex body systems primarily made up of water. Most commonly, women tend to ovulate around the time of the new moon and begin menstruating at the full moon. Many cultures throughout time have referred to a woman's menses as her "moon time." From ancient times people recognized the connection of the moons cyclic nature with the cyclic nature of women's menstrual cycles. Mensa was the Roman goddess of measurement, numbers, calendars and record keeping. Many creation myths follow the familiar theme that said man was made from the combination of earth and the moon, which was the source of menstrual blood. The Greeks, Hindus, Romans, Nordic, Celtic, Egyptian, Arabic, Chinese, and aboriginal Australians all had creation myths recognizing the mysterious and sacred nature of the moon's cycle and menstrual blood-flow. Most cultures around the world recognize the strong intuitive and sexual powers that accompany a woman during the luteal phase of a woman's menstrual cycle. The luteal phase is the time from ovulation until the onset of menstruation. Generally women are thought to be more in tune with their intuition and more in tune with their feelings while ovulating. Studies have also shown that women remember their dreams more frequently and that they dream more vividly during ovulation and menstruation.

Daughter freaks out over school nudity

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My 12-year old daughter came home from school the other today and was clearly upset. She couldn't wait to talk to me about something. Sensing her anxiety, I casually asked, "What's up?" She said, "Somebody at school today said that when I go to Junior High next year, I'll have to change my clothes, shower, and be naked in front of my friends. Is that true?" Where does this "teaching" come from? It surely is difficult to avoid. She is clearly aware that I don't hide from her, and probably assumes (correctly) I'm not bothered in a locker room, which she knows I visit daily. In fact, we've talked about that quite directly before, when I've taken her swimming at the same place. Too bad that unless I miss my guess, there will be an expectation of no nudity when she does get to Junior High, thus reinforcing the developing attitude. No doubt the unenlightened concept of absolute "modesty in dress" will follow. I'm left to conclude that my own very intentional example of common nudity around the house is insufficient to prevent my children from acquiring society's commonplace "body shame." I have been nude often in my own home, so much so that the other morning, as I was getting ready to leave for work, not having dressed yet, I was nude and my daughter seemed to not even notice. At least around bathtime and such, my children are also openly nude around the house. Yet the body shame has developed to a clearly unhealthy degree in my daughter, despite my efforts. The messages of the world have overwhelmed the message I have tried to teach by example.

1. the Bee

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The woman sits on the lingam of her partner, himself seated with his legs outstretched. She can then move up and down while resting on her hands and legs. He lifts her buttocks or thighs to accompany her movements.

Variant: The man can lean against a wall for support. The woman can kneel down instead of sitting, so that she can lean forward more easily and change the angle of penetration into her yoni.

Plusses
The woman has better control of the depth of penetration than with other from behind positions.
The yoni front wall is well stimulated.
In this passive position, the man can more easily caress his partner's breasts and yoni.

Minuses
Tiring position for the man if he has no support.

2. the Eagle

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Laying on their side, the two lovers enlace themselves with their arms and legs, the woman wrapping her legs around her partner's waist. The man bends his legs slightly to facilitate penetration.

Plusses
Very intimate position allowing maximum contact between the two partners.
Good penetration depth when the man bends his thighs between his partner's.

Minuses
Limited amplitude of movement.