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I have only tasted my vagina a few times other than tasting smears of me on someone else's body. This was accomplished by licking my finger; I've never tried to lick my own vagina because I can tell that I couldn't reach it. When I asked for my boy's input as to the flavour of my vagina, he offered that it was "good." Lately he's added that it goes with everything, even recently brushed teeth. Also it goes with margaritas. For details, you are stuck with my description, constructed mostly from other people's vaginas which I have tasted more extensively than my own. This is still a limited description. My beloved also pointed out that different vaginas have different tastes, which hadn't occured to me for whatever reason. The only excuse I can think of is that my vagina-tastings have been few and far apart.

Mechanisms of arousal are always ignored by sex education. A friend of mine pointed this out while we were colouring schematic diagrams of dissected penises in grade 10 or 11. The sex ed classes that I had summed male sexuality up in two topics: embarrassing occasions of involuntary erection, and the biological process of ejaculation (glands, muscle spasms). Female sexuality was comprised of genital diagrams that included "anus," presumably to make sure that everyone knew the vagina was indeed a separate opening, and of various studies of menstruation, relying heavily on two-dimensional pictures of the uterus, which looked mostly like a cow's head with fallopian tubes for ears and horns. I think of arousal in terms of particular feelings that I recognize in myself, of the sensual/sexual variety. Sometimes these will include a desire to touch somebody and/or be naked with them, and sometimes they are all unfocussed and just feelings of pleasure and non-fulfillment. There is a description of the general physical sensations as part of the orgasm description.

My vagina is very elastic, I think lengthwise as well as widthwise. Stretching it has never hurt, during sex or any other time. I think this is because it has been fairly well introduced to stretchery. I did not put things in it when I first started masturbating, but worked up to a couple fingers and whatnot. Also I've always used internal menstrual products. The degree to which it can stretch is explained under size. Stretching my vagina does not wear it out, or make it less elastic for later. It always bounces closed again. It is made of muscles, and meant to be stretchy (for babies to fit through). A fair number of people seem concerned about the possibility of vaginas being stretched out of shape and becoming loose or saggy. To my knowledge, this does not happen, although the extreme stretching while giving birth can resize the vagina a bit. Exercising the vaginal muscles can help keep the vagina toned and strong.

I actually had a request to write something about my "Mound of Venus," and another suggestion to discuss my mons pubis. It is a happy vagina geek when people actually want her to write. So, I refer to the mound in question as my mound of womanhood, mostly in jest. When being more serious, I say simply "mound." The structure being referred to is the, well, mound, that I have on the front of my body, at the bottom of my belly, about where my pubic hair begins. Underneath it is a bone apparently called my pubic bone. I can feel most of this bone like a horizontal ring between my legs if I push around in the various soft tissues. Pushing into my belly I can find the top edge of the bone and sometimes even hook a finger behind it (feels fine to prod mine, but it is uncomfortable to push on my boy's. hmm). Then it is solid down to near the front of the opening of my vagina. I think my hip bones have a lot to do with the sides and back of the ring of bone. Incidentally these bones seem further back from the sides and back of the vaginal opening than the front. I don't know how big the whole ring is. Big enough to fit a baby's head through I would imagine. The ring is the limiting factor in baby head size.

As is mentioned on some other pages, I don't see bleeding as an obstacle to having sex. I've had all kinds of sex and oral sex while bleeding. In fact, the first time that my special boy and I made it I was totally bleeding and we made a big mess (hooray!). The messes are probably my main concern with sex during my period. Orgasms can make me bleed more or make me start bleeding again after recently having finished. This would logically be because they involve uterine contractions, which are what get the blood out of the uterus in the first place. Another issue with smut while bleeding is that for the first day or so of my period, my breasts, vulva, vagina, and what feels like my cervix will often be quite tender and achy. This makes me not want to be penetrated, because it would hurt. (Also if I am already hurting, I tend not to have too much of a sex drive). Sometimes at these times, I get into other kinds of smut like with hands and with mouths.

I am not in the most credible position to claim to be very modest about my vagina, but I wasn't always the mastermind behind a big blue vagina site. Currently, as you might suspect, I am fairly open with issues regarding my vagina and its activities. As a young kid, I kept my vagina to myself in public but occasionally hung out naked with bath partners and we'd check out our various equipment. I remember my boy cousin growing out of this before I did, and being shy about undressing for the tub. After that I was more modest, and once everyone but me noticeably pupated/pubesced I got quite embarrassed about my naked self. Even once I wanted somebody to encounter my vagina, I was slightly worried that whoever ended up seeing it would think it was funny or that I hadn't shaved the hair to a suitable smallness, or that it smelled too much. This cleared up as soon as somebody actually saw it and everything went smoothly. I'm not sure whether I would have been more comfortable with my vagina if I'd had any idea whether there were acceptable standards for a vagina and what they were.

My vagina makes various smells. Sometimes they are stronger than other times. In some circumstances I can smell my vagina while I am sitting around, usually cross-legged in pjs in the middle of the day after not showering. I do not find the smells offensive. I used to worry about them occasionally, but I don't think I ever worried about people smelling them by accident and thinking I was dirty or gross. I did used to worry about make-out partners getting too near my vagina and smelling it. I soon realised that people are aware that vaginas make smells, and that most people aren't grossed out by this. Oral sex can be relaxing that way. I think that believing my vagina wasn't a dirty thing was important. Washing makes my vagina smell less strong. Going several days with no washing results in a more pungent vagina. Most people could probably have guessed that.

Female masturbation seems to intrigue a lot of people, either because they can't figure out how common it is, or how girls do it at all. Or, of course, for voyeuristic reasons, as has been the case with most of the email anticipating this page. I don't really know what proportion of girls masturbate, or how often, but I do it. Sometimes a lot, sometimes not as much. Not very much lately, because I live with my beloved boy and have sex almost every day, but when one of us goes somewhere for any length of time, I masturbate some. There are lots of reasons that I have masturbated. Most often just because I wanted to, but also occasionally to get to sleep, or to help cramps or a headache, and sometimes to help get aroused, in which case I wouldn't follow through to orgasm. I didn't ever masturbate to relax before a date or a party.

I don't know what the average measurements of a full grown vagina are, or how mine relates. Whenever my roommate gets her CrapHound (clip-art zine) stuff back I'll have a diagram of relative vaginal diameters to put up here. It is an enlargement (ha ha) but I guess I'll re-scale it. I have never measured any part of my vagina, but I have a fairly good idea of its size from my various encounters with it while dealing with menstrual products and sex. Also, I've occasionally been curious about the size of it and poked around inside it with my fingers. I have recently concluded that my vagina, in its unstretched state, is about the same length as my fingers. Figuring this out took extended messing about inside me with my fingers (I was trying to work out an Instead menstrual cup).

I think "labia" in my head, not "lips," so that is what I'm using here. Lips seems rude to me for some reason. It reminds me of some guy going on about the beauty of pussies, in reference only to their ability to be fucked. BUT, that is me 🙂 The two sets of my labia are really not that related, despite having the same name. I'll start at the outside. My outer labia/labia majora are quite plump, fatter than my thumbs, but they are flatter and smaller around the opening to my vagina where I sit on them. They begin joined somewhere just under my pubic bone and sort of fade into my bum at the other end. There is a crease where my bum starts though; you can tell. The outside of these is covered in similar skin to the belly and leg skin next to them, as well as in fur. They are furry pretty much the whole way along them, but less densely in the inter-thigh regions than at the front.

This should be fairly straightforward. I think most people know this stuff anyway. The most sensitive parts of my vaginal unit are the insides of my labia and all the moist parts of the vulva, with the clitoris obviously being a special, especially sensitive organ unto itself. The clitoris is capable of generating physical, sexual sensations, while the other parts are merely suggestive. They can be ticklish, especially the outsides of my outer labia. The actual opening of my vagina is also reasonably sensitive to touch, to temperature and to pressure. For about an inch (2-3cm) inside itself, it can feel all those things. I find that stretching is what it can feel the most. In the depths of my vagina, I can really only feel pressure, and not very much. This means that I can use internal menstrual products without noticing them. It also means that while I sometimes get sore around the opening of my vagina, the inner reaches barely ever feel anything. Sometime I worry that some patch inside me could be rubbed raw and near to bleeding and I just haven't noticed it.

Squirting can provide a number of benefits for those who partake. Women often feel a more intense orgasm with ejaculate than without it, possibly due to the high level of stimulation that is often necessary to build to and experience a physical ejaculate release. Knowing how to squirt can also increase sexual confidence if the woman takes pride in having an ability only a few women possess. Learning this technique can add an exciting new element of spice into the sex life of a woman and her partner, increasing the woman's identification of herself as a strongly sexual being. Men often find the concept of an ejaculating partner to be sexy or arousing, as indicated by the popularity of female ejaculation adult videos. Many men would like to see a live demonstration and yearn for their partners to also be able to squirt. This ability can also provide an outlet for sexual aggression: For instance, a woman can literally squirt on her partner's face (or anywhere else), letting him experience what it's like to be covered in ejaculate. These are just some of the many potential benefits of squirting.