The Best Positions for Prostate Play

If you’re having trouble reaching his prostate or want to spice things up, switch positions. He can try lying on his side and pulling the knee of his upper leg toward his chest. This position also works for men who want to try prostate massage by themselves, which may help him get comfortable with the idea.

Check out our these 17 deeply enjoyable pegging positions to get started.

Another position to try has your man sitting with both knees raised to his chest. You can arrange yourself face to face while you stimulate his prostate.

It’s especially easy to stimulate his prostate when he’s on hands and knees, and this is the ideal position for penetrating him with a strap-on. However, he can also lie on his back with his legs up, and you can peg him while you’re kneeling in front of him, similar to Missionary position.

Lean your man over a table or other piece of furniture for complete access to his prostate. This is similar to the many sex positions where a man enters a woman from behind. You can either use a strap-on, another toy or digital stimulation during these positions.

Many of the best sex positions for anal work for prostate play.

Keep in mind utter exhaustion and weak legs that he might experience due to a prostate orgasm, however.

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Prostate Massage for Prostate Health

There is no conclusive evidence about the efficacy of prostate play alone to prevent or relieve the symptoms of prostatitis, but many anecdotal accounts support the idea [4]. However, it can help relieve symptoms of prostatitis. Prostate massage is often combined with antimicrobial or antibiotic therapies successfully [5] [6]. Diet also affects the health of the prostate.

With that said, some doctors and medical professionals provide prostate massage services. Of course, these services cost more than having a lover give a prostate milking, and they’re certainly less sexy.

What the Science Says

Doctors frequently use a digital rectal exam (DRE) to check the health of a man’s prostate [7] [8]. That is, they inserted a finger to feel if there was any swelling or abnormalities in size or texture that might indicate cancer (inflammation may also be a symptom of some STIs like gonorrhea [9]). Men often found this invasive and embarrassing. Sometimes they would even put it off for those reasons. A blood test that looks for prostate-specific antigens (PSA) was developed to detect prostatitis [10].

However, there is now another method that can help doctors screen for the condition: sampling urine after a prostate massage. As it turns out, massaging the prostate released PSAs into the urine [11], and doctors can use this as an alternative method to the digital rectal exam or even the blood test, which isn’t always accurate.

Resources

• Check out guide to prostate play with graphics that explain anatomy and using toys or fingers to stimulate the prostate.
• Cara Sutra wrote an excellent post called Prostate Massage 101 if you still have questions after reading our advice about prostate massage.
• Finally, the Mayo Clinic provides information about prostatitis including a breakdown of the different types and various treatment options.
• Check out the Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure by Charlie Glickman if you want a hard copy.