Analinis seksas: įvadas

„Ei! Ne ten!“

Gana tikėtina, kad šiuos tris žodžius esate girdėjęs ar ištaręs sekso žaidimų su nauju partneriu metu.

Netgi daugelis tų, kurie save laiko „atvirų pažiūrų“, dažnai nubrėžia ribą užpakalinės angos veiklai. Jie gali manyti, kad analinis seksas yra pavojingas, „nešvarus“, galbūt jie buvo auklėti ar socializuoti taip, kad tai yra neteisinga, arba tiesiog bijo kažko naujo ir paslaptingo.

Tačiau tai, ko jie iš tikrųjų praranda, nėra tik „nauja ir paslaptinga“ – tai tikrai orgazmiška.

Analiniai orgazmai yra realūs, jie labai skiriasi nuo kulminacijų, kurias vulvos turėtojos patiria stimuliuodamos klitorį, ir gali būti net galingesni nei G taško orgazmai. Dauguma penio turėtojų, kurie stimuliuodami prostatą pasiekė orgazmą, pasakys, kad šis potyris yra daug intensyvesnis nei oralinis seksas, rankų darbas, vedantis prie ejakuliacijos, ar lytinis aktas.

Tam yra dvi priežastys. Pirma, išangė ir analinis kanalas yra prisotinti labai jautrių nervų, todėl jie dažnai yra neištirta erogeninė zona. Antra priežastis susijusi su anatomine struktūra. Vulvos savininkėms klitoris yra išorinis ir vidinis organas, kuris tęsiasi giliai į kūną, dažnai pasiekdamas išangę. Penio savininkams labai jautri prostata yra šalia išangės, ir kai ji stimuliuojama, gali suteikti aiškų seksualinį malonumą.

Taigi, analinis seksas gali sukelti labai stiprius orgazmus, kartais izoliuotus, kartais – „mišrius orgazmus“, patiriamus keliose skirtingose lytinių organų srityse vienu metu.

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Anal Play Isn’t as Uncommon as You Might Think

For some people, the “back way” is forbidden territory. But for many others the question isn’t whether to try anal sex – it’s how to take it all the way to orgasm.

That’s because statistics show anal play is already more common than you might think. In a recent research survey, 35% of penis owners and 30% of vulva owners reported having had “heterosexual anal intercourse” during the past year. When asked about whether they’d ever experienced anal sex during their lifetime the numbers were even higher, at 44% and 36% respectively. Similar numbers were reported by the 2011 National Health Statistics Report, which focused solely on those aged 25-44.

Fewer authoritative numbers are available on the number of other types of anal activity, such as those who perform solo stimulation and those who engage in anal activity with same-gendered partners.

Research articles regularly focus on the risk of HIV among “homosexual men” who have anal sex. The study cited most often was conducted by the San Francisco-based Stop AIDS Project back in 1997, which found that more than 61% of “homosexual men” reported anal sexual activity, an increase from approximately 57% just three years earlier.

Other estimates vary considerably, all the way up to the 90% cited in one article published in 2013. And a related survey showed that nearly half of those identifying as gay or bisexual men reported having using vibrators; the obvious conclusion is that most used a vibe for anal stimulation.

As for those with vulvas, there’s almost no data on same-gender anal play. The only somewhat-related numbers are cited in the 2013 National Health Statistics Report mentioned earlier, which found that 48% of “homosexual or bisexual women” had had anal sex with an “opposite sex partner.” There are no statistics breaking out on their experiences with “same sex” partners; those are simply lumped into other categories, even though a number of vulva owners clearly use anal sex toys, vibrators or strap-on dildos to enjoy anal pleasure with other vulva-havers.

Of course, anal play can also refer to foreplay. Activities like rimming (oral stimulation of the anus), fingering, or wearing a butt plug to heighten the experience of “front door sex” can be enjoyable and exciting. In some penis-havers, it can even lead to a prostate orgasm.

The key question asked by most of those who’ve already experimented with internal or external stimulation of the anus, though, concerns anal orgasms. More specifically, they want to know how to have one.

We’ll get there shortly. But to understand how to have an anal orgasm, it’s important to understand how and why they occur.

What Causes an Anal Orgasm?

Like other climaxes, anal orgasms are caused by effective stimulation of the body’s erogenous zones.

You probably know that the stimulation involves the prostate gland in those with penises. You probably never realized, however, that anal climaxes in vulva-havers depend largely on the clitoris.

Let’s take them one at a time.