Laisvų rankų orgazmo menas: kaip masturbuotis nesimasturbuojant

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A cursory browse of YouTube will demonstrate that people can do amazing things without using their hands. They can put a pair of pants on, open beer bottles and ride bikes, even draw.

But, there’s one that tops them all and you wouldn’t even think it to be a skill, well, not necessarily a desirable one anyway. We are talking about the ‘hands-free orgasm’. That means ejaculating through brainpower, rather than using any physical touch.

Before you shrug this off as too new-age, Zen rubbish, you should know that a lot of people find that they can have powerful or multiple orgasms using basically the power of your mind, be that through meditation, guided visualisations (basically audio porn), or hypnosis.

While women are more likely to be able to ‘think themselves off’ (Lady Gaga is a fan) than men, it’s still possible for guys to experience mental orgasm.

We often think about sex as being a physical act, but a lot of pleasure can be experienced through the mind alone. Hands-free orgasm has it’s roots in thousands of years of Taoist and Tantric practices focused on mindfulness for sexual pleasure, and in the 1970s sex researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson made the connection between thinking and arousal, and started referring to the brain as the major sex organ.

How to masturbate without hands

By creating the psychological conditions in which sex often occurs, and by relaxing fully, you can create pleasure – without touching yourself at all. Hands-free masturbation, which is also referred to medically as ‘psychosex’ or ‘hypnosex’, usually involves listening to a voice recording of a smooth-toned, sultry female who guides the listener through a process.

This vocal recording is often dubbed over ‘binaural beats’ or low-frequency musical tones that create vibrations. If this sounds familiar, it's because it's essentially an extension of the ASMR response that has taken root in a growing part of YouTube over the past few years — the tingly sensation on the skin and sense of euphoria you might get from watching someone hand make a chef's knife in 4k  can actually lead people towards further pleasure, and potentially an orgasm. However there are a ton of ways, both by yourself and with another person in which you can achieve an orgasmic state without reaching downstairs, from orgasmic breathing to having someone else hypnotise you.

But, it is not as easy as sitting back and letting a recording do all the work. Achieving the right state requires focus, specifically on your breathing. This can include breathing in time with the recording or with a porn performer in whatever clip you’re watching, as though you are the performer yourself. It all boils down to mindfulness. 

This sort of Jedi-level technique takes practice and patience. It may seem like a lot of work, but don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t result in mind-blowing, full throttle multiple orgasms on the first go. What’s important is to focus on being present and mindful of what you’re experiencing in your body. 

If you’re keen to give it a try, here’s a crash course on how to start.

1. Select your stimulus.

Select some sort of pornography or visual stimuli which gets your engine revving. Of course you can also use a guided recording specifically designed for this purpose. You can find lots of free examples to get you start on free porn sites, by Googling ‘erotic hypnosis’. YouTube is clamping down on these sorts of things for obvious reasons, but websites like eSuccubus and /r/GoneWildAudio are full of people posting their own guided visualisations and meditations for you to follow.

2. Find a private place.

You want to be free from distractions, noises and possible interruptions so you are really able to ‘let go’.

3. Concentrate on your breathing.

Breathe either in time with the guidance on the recording, in time with the porn performer, or at a controlled and even pace. Focus on breathing ‘into’ your genitals, as well as your perineum (the space between your balls and anus), as you inhale, relaxing as you exhale. You’ll start to feel blood rushing to the area. 

4. Listen.

Focus on the recording’s words as they guide you through erotic imagery.  If you’re using porn, really start to focus on the sensations you would be experiencing if you were in that situation, or you can use your own fantasies.

5. Go with one thought at a time.

Lots of thoughts may come and go, but just focus on your one main sensation, imagery or fantasy. Focus on the pleasure you can experience; the tingles, the warmth or chills, the pulsation and movements that you can feel. Go with them. 

6. Get rhythmic.

As you start to feel some pressure or tingling build, try to pulse tension into your genitals, using the muscles in your pelvis and anus to tense and relax in time with the breathing or action. Just like with partner sex, let it build until you feel satisfied and/or you reach orgasm. 

Remember – it may not happen on the first time, and it’s likely you’ll feel a bit awkward. 

You’ll need to train yourself to be able to fully immerse in the experience, to focus, and to hone your technique. 

Much like any meditation or mindfulness technique, it takes time and practice to master so don’t give up if you fail to achieve your desired results on the first try.