6 geriausios oralinio sekso pozos (su iliustracijomis ir patarimais). 6 dalis
Teksto dydis: +1, +2, normalus.Sideways 69
For those who want a more relaxing mutual pleasure oral sex position, take the traditional oral 69 and lay it on its side. To get into place, lay down top to toe, facing each other's genitals, resting your head on your partner's inner thigh, and lifting your other leg or placing it around your partner's neck.
What makes this position great?
It's got all the benefits of mutual oral sex without the intimidation or one partner having to take the lead top role. It also means you don't have to switch positions when the top partner starts to get stiff knees or becomes uncomfortable.
It's a worthy oral sex position for older lovers whose knees might not be as limber as they once were. Do you get back or neck pain from being on all fours for too long? You can say goodbye to those with Sideways 69. Once you've picked a suitably snug place to enjoy the act—typically a bed, but who's to say it's not just as relaxing at a secluded picnic or al fresco getaway—it's a perfectly comfortable oral sex position for both.
Taking Sideways 69 to the next level
If you like your sex a little rougher, with that carefully placed leg around your partner's neck, you can use it to pull them in when the heat rises or clamp them in place as you climax.
Tips for Unforgettable Oral Sex
1. Get there slowly
For many, oral sex is part of their foreplay. And that's great, as it's a surefire way to raise the heat and prepare yourselves for penetrative sex. However, taking oral sex to climax as an experience in its own right opens lovers to new sensations. Why not switch things around and use other methods of foreplay as the lead-in to your favorite oral sex positions? Take your time, savor each moment, and enjoy the journey as well as the outcome.
2. Pace yourself
Taking your time to enjoy it all means holding something back for your extended journey. Remember, sex isn't just about orgasm; it's about enjoying every aspect from start to finish: the heightened anticipation, the tastes, the sights, the increased intimacy that brings you closer together, and, of course, the high-powered and highly-charged climax you'll get at the finale.
3. Introduce edible lube
Don't be fooled into thinking lube has no place in your oral adventures. With slippery enough fingers, it can feel like two tongues going to work on their genitals instead of only one. For those who might need a little help creating enough natural lubrication for dual stimulation or for those who might prefer to add a more pleasant flavor to their partner's genitals, edible lube—in all kinds of flavors—is perfect.
4. Consider sex toys
The best oral sex positions allow plenty of room for innovation. Can you have too much of a good thing? We don't think so, so why not add a vibrator, butt plug, or penis ring to the mix? If you're craving the sensations of oral sex but without a current partner, there are clitoral stimulation and suction toys designed to deliver the same sensations, or if you've got a penis, grab yourself a Fleshlight, masturbator, or hydro penis pump with a massage function.
For those focusing on comfort, a sex pillow can help with that, and to kick things off as you mean to go on, edible underwear could be just the thing!
5. Talk about what you like and communicate it during the experience
Whatever the best sex positions are for you and your partner, you'll get more out of them if you've discussed each other's expectations, turn-offs, limits, and, of course, what your biggest turn-ons include. Talking about what you like before, during, and after your sessions will help deliver the best oral sex for you both.
6. Explore other body parts
Oral sex may revolve around what your mouth and tongue are doing, but our bodies are packed with erogenous zones and sensitive nerve endings you can use to heighten the experience. Nibbling and chewing nipples, necks, and inner thighs provides a serious tease before moving on to the receiver's clitoris or penis, creating masses of anticipation and arousal.
7. Do some research and mix up your technique
Your new exploratory oral sex positions are only one-half of the experience; your technique is the other. Do some online research if you want to surprise your partner with a few new tongue-based tricks. Alternatively, you can ask them what hits the spot for them and what kind of controlled movements deliver the greatest sensations. Ask them to show you where and how they want you to work their body to get the best results.
8. Stay Safe: oral sex transmits STIs just like any other type of sex
Unfortunately, many teenagers and young adults remained poorly educated about the risks of sexual contact, leading to worrying health implications. Most engage in oral sex to avoid pregnancy or because it doesn't have the same commitment or relationship value as penetrative sex (40–47% of young people in the USA, according to this study, Framing and Understanding the Whole Aspect of Oral Sex from Social and Health Perspectives). However, they also believe it holds fewer disease transmission risks, resulting in them taking fewer precautions to prevent infection.
Unfortunately, many teenagers and young adults remained poorly educated about the risks of sexual contact, leading to worrying health implications.
To stay safe, those with multiple partners can take precautionary measures, including condoms for penis-based oral sex, dental dams during cunnilingus, thorough washing, appropriate personal hygiene, and regular testing to ensure a clean bill of sexual health.
Summary
Communication, as with all sex, is key, and keeping each other safe should always be paramount. So, whether you're face-sitting, figuring out your best blowjob position, or having a pelvis pushed into your face, there's much to be explored and enjoyed via the almost endless options of oral sex positions.
Communication, as with all sex, is key, and keeping each other safe should always be paramount.
With the benefits it can bring to your love life, relationship, or sexual experimentation, it pays to spend a little time getting to know your partner's mouth a little better and exploring their most sensitive parts with yours.
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