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Teksto dydis: +1, +2, normalus.The Lotus
The Lotus position is often considered the cream of intimate sex positions. Depending on how supple they are, the bottom partner may assume the yoga Lotus position, sit cross-legged, with knees half bent, or however their legs allow while sitting upright. The receiving partner straddles their partner's lap face-to-face, lowered onto their penis, strap-on, or dildo.
What makes this a great position
- Being so close, with bodies tightly pressed together and each other's eyes in direct line, it's impossible not to feel the heightened intimacy the Lotus brings.
- For yoga lovers, you'll spot that this intimate sex position has all of your chakras aligned, creating multiple energy circuits between partners.
- As well as intimate connectivity, the receiving partner is perfectly placed to rock and rub their clitoris against the base of their partner's penis.
Our tips for this position
- The Lotus position is perfect for getting your breathing and motion in sync, touching foreheads, and kissing. This full-body embrace delivers masses of personal connection and intimacy. Whether it's sweet nothings or downright dirty talk, you're perfectly placed to whisper in your partner's ear while nibbling on their lobes.
- With a few minor adjustments, the Lotus delivers several different sensations. While leaning into your partner brings heightened intimacy, leaning backward changes the angle of penetration and gives the penetrating partner a superb view of them rocking and rubbing on top of them.
- Try throwing your favorite toys into the mix – the Lotus is perfect for a vibrating penis ring, wands, butt plugs, and anal toys.
Best tips for Romantic Sex
Improving intimacy isn't just about sex, but as this review into marital intimacy-enhancing interventions discusses, it's a key component running alongside a selection of other intimacy models.
1. Work on your breathing
Breathing in time with your partner will sync your bodies, and tantric breathing—inhaling and exhaling your partner's breath while they do the opposite—can be incredibly erotic.
It's said to create a circular flow of energy between partners. Alternatively, try breathing in and out together, as this is thought to set hearts to beat at the same rate, creating empathy within your romantic sex to what each other is feeling.
2. Set the mood
Clear the room of all the day-to-day bits and pieces, dim the lighting, and relax. Build a romantic mood by lighting scented candles, putting on a slow, sensual playlist, and clearing the calendar to give yourselves all the time you need for a super intimate connection.
Clear the room of all the day-to-day bits and pieces, dim the lighting, and relax.
Communication plays a huge part in romantic sex, so have those conversations up front, during, and after. Finding out what each other likes won't just help in the bedroom but bring you closer emotionally.
3. Don’t rush things
Being on a timer will kill the mood, so take your time. Slowly build each act, exploring how light touches, licks, and caressing induces tingles, tickles, and sensations you miss out on with the usual race-pace-sex designed purely to get you to the finish line.
4. Spend your time on romantic foreplay
Perfecting your foreplay game is a must. It builds anticipation and heat, so it's ideal for building intimacy and connection. Take your time to pleasure each other before the main feature; it'll be worth every added minute.
5. Kissing. Just kissing.
There isn't much out there that's as intimate as kissing, and making out is so underrated; it's sexy, hot, and incredibly intimate when you slow it down. Access your inner teenager and remember how good a long, slow kissing session is and how much it adds to your sex life.
6. Make eye contact
While admiring your partner's body or getting turned by watching them touch themself is incredibly hot, making eye contact throughout the stages of sex creates unspoken communication between you. A smile, grin, or groan says so much more while looking directly into your partner's eyes, so make them count and keep them coming.
7. Tender touches add to your intimate positions
Passionate sex includes a lot of grabbing and groping, and as wonderful as it is, slow, tender, delicate strokes, touches, and soft scratches are the order of the day during your romantic sex sessions.
8. Try letting your toys do the work
We've mentioned adding sex toys to a few of our romantic sex positions, but realistically, they'll add something to all of them. You don't even need to have sex; using toys while masturbating together or in front of each other, whether using them on your own body or your partner's, adds more intimacy than many romantic sex positions.
We've mentioned adding toys to a few of our romantic sex positions, but realistically, they'll add something to all of them.
And why stop with toys? Why not add a little flavored lube or a drizzle of chocolate sauce to lick from your partner's most sensitive areas?
Summary
A study in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy states that "Sexual satisfaction significantly predicted emotional intimacy." It goes on to discuss how emotional intimacy and sexual satisfaction affect the views around communication and relationship satisfaction.
Romantic sex positions bring something softer, slower, and more intimate to your sex life.
While the frenzy of wild, passionate sex, thrusting frantically during doggy style, the pile driver, or the power grab, delivers masses of endorphins and excitement into the bedroom, picking the slower, steadier, sexier, face-to-face positions builds a stronger connection between you, meeting very different sexual needs.
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